I’ve been on some major projects lately and haven’t forgotten my other duties. Some have priority over others. Every now and then I do see some wonderful things that should be presented and this is one that drew my attention. It is a great article on race issues. Short but very much to the point. The title is “Defining Color Beyond Hues”. The link is attached to the title. Briefly, it’s about the author’s daughter’s conversation on race. It’s amazing what little children see through their eyes and what happens to us after we become adults regarding racial attitudes. Yes, they have an interracial family through the author’s sister who married out of their race. Does it make a difference to any of us? Some of us it does. I can’t lie, it used to make a difference to me. I couldn’t see any reason to love, let alone, marry, someone out of my race. But as I’ve gotten older, whose business is it anyway, who people marry? More importantly, when two people can give love unconditionally to each other regardless of race they are showing me just how strong that relationship is. It’s complex loving someone in your own without dealing with race as a major obstacle. Nevertheless, we do tend to change our attitudes later in life, well some of us do. Some people who still feel the need to hate won’t change but they are the ones who are missing out on the beauty of life. Maybe if we see a jerk, it doesn't matter what color he is.
Sometimes, we tend to find excuses for the things that don't work out for us. We tend to blame others instead of taking responsibility for our actions, which only elevates the excuses. This behavior also applies to standing up for what is right. We often remain silent and wait for someone else to take the initiative instead of holding ourselves accountable. "What's your excuse, now?" is about empowering ourselves to make choices that will help us feel comfortable and confident in our skin.
Thursday, March 3, 2011
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