Sometimes, we tend to find excuses for the things that don't work out for us. We tend to blame others instead of taking responsibility for our actions, which only elevates the excuses. This behavior also applies to standing up for what is right. We often remain silent and wait for someone else to take the initiative instead of holding ourselves accountable. "What's your excuse, now?" is about empowering ourselves to make choices that will help us feel comfortable and confident in our skin.
Friday, July 22, 2011
You Bring Me Joy (Live) – Anita Baker
Dedicated to StarChild – Truly a Free Spirit
For a season or more, I’ll always cherish this moment. I would have never thought that looking at your from a distance that I would ever get this close to you.
Thursday, July 21, 2011
Not Fair & Definitely Misleading!
Once again the web of deceit and distraction is being spun by the ultra-right press against the President. It’s not a surprise anymore, but I do feel disgusted at the acts and levels that these groups will resort to despite their own houses in disorder. Faux News, unfair an unbalanced coverage of Rupert Murdoch’s scandalous wiretapping is a sham. They barely covered their boss’s problem but ran all other negative news’ coverage in the ground. Here are a few examples, Shirley Sherrod and the black farmers, ACORN, the President’s birth certificate, Air Force One, and everything and anything about the First Family. The media is deliberately misleading the public and some of us are gullible enough to believe everything we read and hear. And of course, no one will refer them to FactCheck, an independent, unbiased group, because someone might get the truth and see how the ultra-rights and Tea Party Reps are making intentional misstatements. I learned long ago that you don’t throw rocks at people when you live in a glass house. Taxing the rich and our health care law are not job killers. Economists found out that the wealthy were not creating jobs and that small business would not have a major impact. Somebody turned the lights on and the haters are running for cover. Their hiding in the darkness has affected their thinking and all they care about is staying in the muck and keeping things as they were. Now we’re hearing about the President playing more golf than Bush. President Obama is playing more golf than Bush did, even though Bush took more vacations. It doesn’t matter because the things Bush did wasn’t under the microscope as Obama. There’s probably somebody, somewhere counting how many times the President has passed gassed. Why are some of these people so intense on destroying this country and blaming the black man? Maybe, they just feel that this black man forgot his place and it’s somebody duty to remind him that he’s getting a little uppity and forgetting his place. Civil discourse, courtesy, and respect are not the order of the day. Let’s play rough until one of us gets hurt. Then we can pick up our toys and go home. Our elected officials sure have a lot of growing up to do. Pray for these people, pray for this nation and pray for each other.
Monday, July 18, 2011
We Pledge Allegiance to Grover Norquist Not To The American Flag!
This is a very interesting commentary written by the Times Daily columnist for the Pittsburgh Post-Gazette. I wonder if this article got national attention. I don’t think so. Which partisan group controls the media that believes in pledges and feels that big government regulatory policies impede progress?
Grover Norquist has Republican politicians and candidates signing pledges in the midst of a national crisis. What does he have on these people? They were elected by the people and now forget about the majority and cater to the minority that has the money.
Here’s the pledge:
I _____ pledge to the taxpayers of the state of _____ and all the people of this state, that I will oppose and vote against all efforts to increase taxes," reads the version of the pledge signed by Republican lawmakers.
According to the United States Flag Code, the Pledge of Allegiance reads:
I pledge allegiance to the flag of the United States of America, and to the republic for which it stands, one nation under God, indivisible, with liberty, and justice for all.
“One nation under God, indivisible, with liberty, and justice for all.” That used to mean something. It seems not that the “For all” stands for those that have the money that these politicians will fight for now.
Saturday, July 16, 2011
Pitiful Me
I got through yesterday and tomorrow was overdue.
I’m bruised from the problems of today’s news.
I built this wall, this fortress of distrust. I had to do it before I got lost.
I wished that our forever would have last,
instead it became another sore spot in my soiled past.
I kept looking for another you, substituting my loneliness just won’t do.
Torn pictures in my mind keeps dragging out the hurts left behind.
I can’t see ahead because I ignore the signs.
I wanted to be needed, but always got used.
My attempts at love always ended with me being the abused.
The wall I have is as strong as steel, I don’t trust the love that I feel.
I fall in love instantly, not considering the path it’s leading me.
I have so much about love to learn, I guess that’s my reason for getting burned.
Take it or leave it, I hate being alone. I failed as so many others have done.
No more pointing fingers, no one to blame, no more it’s your faults,
no more calling each other names.
The ripples of hurt are smooth as silk, yet they are deep and cut to the quick.
How can I pursue the future still caught in the past?
How can I go forward if I think love won’t last?
Where is my faith, what do I believe in?
Lord, send me someone that will love me again.
A Part of Things ©
Friday, July 8, 2011
Matters Of The Heart - Tia D.
Another glimpse of Tia D's heart! As always, thank you, Tia! I appreciate you.
Matters of the Heart
Some things are never clear
until the crystal breaks
Sometimes you never know
until it's all too late
Yet here I am afraid to move
and just as scared to not
A catch 22 with lessons learned
and wisdom being taught.
None of which I've asked for
as easy they are not
and in the most unpleasant way
much pain at times they've brought
Once again I’ve jumped heart first
And left my head behind
So afraid to miss this “chance”
That I became so blind
Ignoring flags and past mistakes
Again the roles confused
I left my heart wide open
Emotions, thoughts diffused
Here I am my heart wide open
Emotions gone astray
Denial fails me yet again
These thoughts won’t go away.
God, please guard my heart and mind
For I can’t find a way
Free me from all false control
Lord, that is what I pray!
7/8/2011
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