What's Your Excuse, Now?: What Have We Learned?

Thursday, June 25, 2009

What Have We Learned?

We are living in historical times! The first black U. S. President, and awesome first lady, the first black Attorney General, governors & senators admitting affairs and a governor suggesting to secede from the union (Texas) are just part of the experience we are living! So many exciting things are taking place. Just yesterday, South Carolina's Governor admitted that he was in Argentina with his mistress spending Father's Day with her instead of with his wife and four boys. We all make mistakes, some we regret and all we hope that we learned a lesson from them. Yes, I feel for all parties involved because betrayal is heart-breaker and sometimes you just don't get over it. It affects even the people not involved. Affairs are usually caused because someone's needs are not met by the other partner. What's worse it's not discussed with the partner to try to resolve those needs in a timely manner. Then it becomes to late to amend the problem(s). Love is beautiful but it can hurt worse than some of us can ever imagine. I'm not justifying affairs and I don't judge people's actions. If two people are willing to reconcile then the indescretions should not be brought up ever again. If their love is deeper than stolen honey, they should find the roots and fertilize that love and start over again!

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