We often look for excuses when things don’t go our way, shifting the blame onto others instead of taking responsibility for our own choices. But excuses only grow stronger the more we feed them. This same pattern shows up when it comes to doing what’s right—we stay silent, waiting for someone else to step forward, rather than holding ourselves accountable. “What’s your excuse now?” is a challenge to stop hiding behind hesitation and a sense of true comfort in our own skin.
Friday, February 3, 2012
Thursday, February 2, 2012
Don Cornelius – September 27, 1936 to February 1, 2012
"... and you can bet your last money, it's all gonna be a stone gas, honey! I'm Don Cornelius, and as always in parting, we wish you love, peace and soul!"
Rest now, our brother.
Rest now, our brother.
Tuesday, January 24, 2012
It’s Not My Job!
You got to give it to Rick Santorum as a candidate running for President of the United States . A leader stands up for what he thinks is right regardless of the feedback. If Santorum was a man with character he wouldn’t mislead or deceive his potential voters. That is the problem with this current crop of candidates. They are more determined to be the nominee of the Republican Party that they are willing to compromise their moral and integrity to get it. Rick had an opportunity to seize the moment by correcting a falsehood made by an individual. Instead, he tried to take a negative advantage of it by “alluding” but not disagreeing that the President is an Arab. How responsible would this “President” be when things go wrong? Sen. John McCain is a bigger man. In 2008, when McCain was running for President, a woman told him that she heard Obama was an Arab. McCain immediately threw that claim out. He respectfully told her, “No, ma’am. He's a decent family man and citizen that I just happen to have disagreements with on fundamental issues and that's what this campaign's all about. He's not." Booyah! Now that was Presidential material. John didn’t make it as President but at least he manned up! Santorum didn’t take the high road and he didn’t dive in the ditch to get dirty. He just stood back and said “That’s not my job!”
Monday, January 23, 2012
I Do Not Interpret Dreams!
This article started out from a simple email and phone conversation but it got me really thinking. A friend sent me an email last weekend about a dream she had and wanted several of us to interpret it for us. I’m not even good at guessing, so dream interpretation is out of the question. I didn’t answer the email. Later, she forwarded me a response from one of the recipients with a note that said, “Look what so & so said.” I still didn’t reply. A few minutes later I got a phone call from my friend asking if I read her email and what did I think? I told her that so & so was right! “Why”, she asked? Because the first thing typed was, “Pray for revelation!” To me, that was a good answer. I believe that once God gives you the answer, what other answer do you need? You don’t need a second opinion. This is spiritual related, not medical. The prophets and kings in the Bible knew it or either learned it later. God makes the impossible, possible, because He is able and no one is greater. We tend to want an immediate answer and one that we want to hear. We all love and believe in God, but we all have our moments of weakness. Our disappointments are God’s appointments. We can’t see that because that’s who we are. God wants us to use these difficult situations and circumstances to help us grow and be better people. It’s hard to deal with rejections and failures. But we have to believe if God didn’t believe in us we wouldn’t be who we are. It’s bad enough that we don’t believe in ourselves. Back to the dream interpretation dilemma, when it’s time to be revealed, she will recognize the significance. Prayerfully, she will learn more about herself. She is a good person but like many of us still searching for more, for something to believe in.
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