Well Done – Deitrick Haddon – Dedicated To All Whom Have Transitioned

Rest In Peace, Ms. Leaks!

Ms. Leaks & the family celebrating her 88th birthday!

On Tuesday, May 10, 2011, at the age of 88, Mrs. Phebbie L. Leaks entered into eternal rest. Mrs. Leaks peacefully passed away at the Palmetto Baptist Hospital in Columbia with many of her family members at her bedside. Her husband, the late Roger Leaks Sr., preceded her in death on Feb. 18, 1974.  Our prayers are with the family.

I failed to mention, with all due respect and sincere apologies, that this is Lady Z's, our guest writer, mother.  You got a great example to live by, my sister, she taught all of you well.

See You Later!

See You Later!

 

I know, I said that love is temporary,

You knew what I meant.

You understood, because you

Were heaven sent.

 

Well, heaven called you back home.

To me, it was much too soon.

I miss you, sweet pea. You knew

Me better than anyone.

I miss the noise,

the clatter in the kitchen.

I missed the chance for

The words I should have mentioned.

 

I thought I would have the time.

I didn’t think that it would be too late.

We take so much for granted

But God had already set the date.

Our bed is cold.

I sleep on your side every now and then.

The bedroom is still the same,

I couldn’t bear to make a change.

 

I miss your laughter,

I miss your smile.

I miss your anger,

I miss your smell.

 

The baby still doesn’t know

That you’re gone.

Little Kenzie still calls your name

Even though we visit your grave as much as we can.

 

I miss your voice,

I miss your touch.

I miss your love.

I miss you, honey.

 

I’ll see you later, my dearest.

I hope it’s in the same place.

I long for that day

To see you face-to-face.

“A Part of Things”

E. S. Litman



Happy Mother's Day!

I don't know who wrote this but it's on time! There are so many mothers who are angels and willing to sacrifice all for their children. I know that we were lucky, too! Enjoy your day, ladies!

A Newborn's Conversation With God

A baby asked God,

'They tell me you are sending me to earth tomorrow,

but how am I going to live there being so small and helpless?'

God said,

'Your angel will be waiting for you

and will take care of you.'

The child further inquired,

'But tell me, here in heaven I don't have to do anything

but sing and smile to be happy.'

God said,

'Your angel will sing for you

and will also smile for you.

And you will feel your angel's love

and be very happy.'

Again the child asked,

'And how am I going to be able to understand

when people talk to me if I don't know the language?'

God said,

'Your angel will tell you the most beautiful and sweet

words you will ever hear,

and with much patience and care,

your angel will teach you how to speak.'

'And what am I going to do when I want to talk to You?'

God said,

'Your angel will place your hands together

and will teach you how to pray.'

'Who will protect me?'

God said,

'Your angel will defend you

even if it means risking its life.'

'But I will always be sad

because I will not see you anymore.'

God said,

'Your angel will always talk to you about Me

and will teach you the way to come back to Me,

even though I will always be next to you.'

At that moment there was much peace in Heaven,

but voices from Earth could be heard

and the child hurriedly asked,

God, if I am to leave now, please tell me my angel's name.'

God said,

'You will simply call her,

'Mom.'

Rest in Peace, Ms. Frances Gaylord!

One day and a half before Mother’s Day, my co-worker’s mother-in-law was buried.  Ms. Francis was 72 years old.  Her suffering in this world is now over.  She has found peace.  For the rest of that family’s life, Mother’s Day will always have a different meaning.  In fact, all holidays that the family has shared with each other will be different.  It is the same for me with Easter, Mother’s Day for me will never be the same.  My prayers are with the family.  Yes, dying is easy, it’s the leaving part that’s hard to cope with.  We all will leave someone behind, but we pray that we will see our love ones again in the new life.

Deal With It! But, Don’t Give Up!

As kids when we fail off our bicycle for the first time trying to ride it, our mother or father told us to get up, dust ourselves off, and get back on.  We had some scrapes but we got back on because we knew that they would be there to support and encourage us.  No one ever said life was easy.  As long as we live, we’ll experience more bumps and bruises.  Our parents are no longer here with us so deal with challenges the best way we can.  We grew up.  The most important thing is not to give up or give in.  We have our pity parties because they help to cope with our situation. And we’ll feel sorry for ourselves for a while.  Everybody has something going on in their lives.  We control what we can and give the rest to God.  We have to regroup and we start by appreciating the small things.  I call them blessings.  We all can’t drive luxury cars or live in mansions and be CEO’s, but we can be grateful for what we have.  We don’t know what people have to go through to get what they have.  If we think we’re unhappy with our current conditions, how do we know what others feel?   We all see the outside but we really don’t have a clue what is going on inside that person.  We only know about ourselves unless we’re fooling ourselves.  We tend to do that a lot.  But, we still find time to judge others.  We still find time to complain and continue to make ourselves miserable and even the people around us.  We’re not satisfied with the way we look, talk, act, or live but we forget that everyday we live is a blessing.  We can change our negative habits if we put our minds to it.  It’s not easy to change or even accept change but we can do it.  How bad do we want it?  What and/or who are we willing to give up?  What kind of sacrifices will we have to make?  We begin within.  We have to look deep in ourselves and come to terms with the naked truth.  We are not what we think we are.  When we think we are more than we are, we are less.  We inflate our egos for all of the wrong reasons.  We forget that we are being blessed everyday even we have setbacks, there are blessings within.  We have to pray for wisdom and understanding.  We need them.

Obama Got Osama!

Obama announcing that Osama was killed May 1, 2011

Obama announcing that Osama was killed  May 1, 2011

The area of a compound where it is believed al-Qaida leader Osama bin Laden lived seen in Abbottabad, Pakistan on Monday, May 2, 2011.