Sometimes, we tend to find excuses for the things that don't work out for us. We tend to blame others instead of taking responsibility for our actions, which only elevates the excuses. This behavior also applies to standing up for what is right. We often remain silent and wait for someone else to take the initiative instead of holding ourselves accountable. "What's your excuse, now?" is about empowering ourselves to make choices that will help us feel comfortable and confident in our skin.
Wednesday, June 22, 2011
Good Man - Raphael Saadiq
Seems to be true. A good man is hard to find and is still treated with disrespect. Some women prefer a piece of a man than a good man!
Thursday, June 9, 2011
Landslide - Stevie Nicks
I took my love and I took it down
I climbed a mountain and I turned around
And I saw my reflection in the snow covered hills
Till Landslide brought me down
Oh mirror in the sky, what is love?
Can the child within my heart rise above?
Can I sail through the changing ocean tides
Can I handle the seasons of my life?
Mmm mmm I don’t know
Mmm mmm
Mmm mmm
Well I’ve been afraid of changing ‘cause I
Built my life around you
But time makes you bolder
Children get older, I’m getting older too
Soo (Interlude)
I’ve been afraid of changing ‘cause I
I built my life around you
But time makes you bolder, children get older
I’m getting older too
I’m getting older too
Soo take this love, take it down
Ohh if you climb a mountain and you turn around
If you see my reflection in the snow covered hills
Well the landslide will bring it down, down
And if you see my reflection in the snow covered hills,
Well maybe, the landslide will bring it down
Well well the landslide with bring it down
Class War or Race War?
Ralph Bunche authored a pamphlet entitled A World View of Race. In it, Bunche wrote: "And so class will some day supplant race in world affairs. Race war will then be merely a side-show to the gigantic class war which will be waged in the big tent we call the world." Ralph Bunche was a political scientist and diplomat. He won the Nobel Peace Prize in 1950 for mediation in Palestine during the Arab-Israeli Conflict.
I’ve said this before and I do sincerely think that a class war can happen. Look at the division between Wall Street and Main Street. The rich is getting richer and the poor is getting poorer. Social benefits are being cut and education isn’t important. Teachers are being cut and schools are closing. Public schools and teachers are not making the grades. Technology has advanced to the point that uneducated people can not be hired and sources of cheap labor are found overseas. The economy isn’t progressing as fast as any of us would like. Foreclosures are at an all time high and buying a home is now harder than ever. The American dream is about to become history. It is true that hatred is in the bottom of many peoples’ hearts. But it is more prevalent in those people that are uneducated and don’t have very much. Some may feel resentful and others don’t need a reason at all to hate. Then, you just have some folks who simply just don’t know why they feel the way they do. I can tell you this, while different factions are trying to separate this country using race as a smokescreen, we better be vigilant before we all end up on the same economic level. Either we will have (wealth) or will not (poverty). These factions see using race as an excuse to cause this country to fail. We can’t let this happen. Let’s be aware of what’s happening around us. Let’s take an interest in what can we do to make this country a better place for all us to live in.
Wednesday, June 8, 2011
Adult Literacy
Photo by Chris Johnson |
The US Department of Education, Institute of Education Sciences Statistics from 1992-2003 show a wide disparity of scores among Asian/Pacific Islanders, Hispanics, Black, and Whites in adult literacy skills. I can actually understand the language issues with non-English speaking people but why do the Blacks and Whites have the problem with literacy?
The National Assessment of Adult Literacy (NAAL) gave tests that showed an estimate that 14% of our nation’s residents have reading and writing problems. Those that can read have comprehension issues. What’s worse, they are considered illiterate! About 1 in 7 can’t read this blog. How can you fill out any forms if you can’t read or understand them? Now wonder there is such a high unemployment rate among minorities. That coupled with government subsidies doesn’t make things any better. One must be committed and willing to improve their conditions. At the same time, there should be a level playing field, too! These same handouts that are making some folks complacent are also turning their heads from undercover racist actions designed to keep them down.
I don’t have an answer for this. We all can make an effort to keep our children in school and help those that are not able. But, do we want to take the time? Our drop out rate among Blacks in 2008 was 9.9%, 8.7% among males, 11.1% among females. These numbers represent 16-24 year olds who are not enrolled in school and did not earn a high school credential (GED or diploma). The total dropout rate for all Races/Ethnicities was 8%.
“This is a problem we can’t afford to accept or ignore,” President Obama said. “The stakes are too high – for our children, for our economy, for our country. It’s time for all of us to come together – parents and students, principals and teachers, business leaders and elected officials – to end America’s dropout crisis.”
“It is time for all of us, no matter what our backgrounds, to come together and solve this epidemic. Stemming the tide of dropouts will require turning around our low-performing schools. Just 2,000 high schools in cities like Detroit, Los Angeles, and Philadelphia produce over 50% of America’s dropouts… Let us all make turning around our schools our collective responsibility as Americans.” President Barack Obama
It’s good that our President supports this cause but what about us? What can we do?
Monday, June 6, 2011
Tia D - "Myself"
Myself
All I really want
is to just be who I am
Free from any expectations
That is where I’ll stand
I do not live for social norms
I go against the grain
Not to make a statement
They just make me go insane!
You cannot put me in box
‘Though some still often try
And when I do it to myself
“Myself” becomes a lie
Please don’t try to box me in
For this I must confess
When you define the borders
I become myself much less
If who I am is not enough
Then please do not pursue
Cause I just want to be myself
Especially with you.
Tia D. 6-5-2011
Thursday, June 2, 2011
That Girl - Thanks Tia!
That Girl
Head on her pillow tears streaming down.
She cries herself to sleep.
She feels alone and so insecure
Feeling the lies of this world cutting deep.
She paints her face to hide the shame
from weight she cannot bear
Jokes are made at her expense
She tries so hard not to care.
She’s the one who acts so tough
That most would never guess
Underneath that frail façade
Is hurt she can’t confess.
She’s the girl who will succeed
She’s way beyond her class
But no one knows she works so hard
Just to avoid her past.
I was that girl who felt alone
Who once was overweight
With walls built up to hide the hurt
I always made the grade.
But now I know I’m not alone
Whatever the scale may say
Found freedom in confession
And my worth in Christ will stay.
By Tia Deibert
Tuesday, May 31, 2011
Cut From The Same Cloth?
Protesters from the anti-gay |
What a twist! Two hate groups are now turning their hatred towards each other at Arlington National Cemetery! The Westboro Baptist Church didn’t get love from a Virginian branch of the Ku Klux Klan! Go figure! One of the most bigoted churches in the nation is being demonstrated against by one of the most racist groups in the nation. If you’re not familiar with the Westboro Baptist Church group, they are known for their extreme stance against homosexuality, picketing funerals, and desecrating the American flag. These folks protest military and celebrity funerals to get media attention. They are like a rebel Baptist church that has no connections with the Baptists. Yes, they are an independent hate group as far I’m concerned. They don’t seem to like or respect anyone if you aren’t a member. I do mean anyone, including religions. It’s odd that they do not support racism. But their founder Fred Phelps is a veteran of the Civil Rights Movement and his Church has tried to distance itself from groups that support racism. On the day when both groups should be paying tribute and remembrance to our fallen heroes, they are focusing on pettiness and attention. They are surely exercising their free speech bought by these heroes’ blood. This is the direction our country is headed and it has nothing to do with the government or the current administration.
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