Many churches have noticed a decline in attendance among young Black men (roughly 16–24), and the reasons are layered — some cultural, some institutional, and some generational. Here are some key factors often cited in research, surveys, and community discussions:
1. Generational Shift in Faith & Spirituality
· Nationally, younger generations across all races are less likely to attend church than their parents. The rise of the “nones” (those with no religious affiliation) is most substantial among Gen Z and Millennials.
· Many young Black men say they still believe in God, but they view spirituality as personal, not tied to church structures.
2. Relevance & Representation
· Some feel churches don’t address their daily realities: systemic racism, police encounters, unemployment, mental health, and identity struggles.
· They may see sermons focused on tradition, morality, or politics instead of guidance for navigating the challenges they face as young Black men.
3. Masculinity & Church Culture
· Church spaces in some traditions are perceived as more welcoming to women, children, and elders, but not to young men.
· Some young men say they don’t see strong male mentorship or leadership that resonates with them, or they feel the church expects a kind of vulnerability they aren’t comfortable with.
4. Distrust of Institutions
· Broader distrust of institutions (government, schools, even religious organizations) runs deep.
· Scandals, church politics, or leaders seen as disconnected from the community can discourage engagement.
· Some also perceive churches as too tied to money or as judgmental rather than supportive.
5. Competition for Time & Identity
· Sports, jobs, school, and social media occupy a significant portion of their lives. Sundays are often workdays for those in hourly jobs.
· Online communities, music, and peer groups often provide a sense of belonging that churches once offered.
· Some associate the church with their parents’ or grandparents’ generation and see it as old-fashioned or restrictive.
6. Unanswered Questions & Doubt
· Young people often wrestle with questions about justice, suffering, race, gender, and sexuality.
· If their doubts are dismissed rather than engaged, they may walk away.
· For Black young men in particular, unanswered questions about racism and God’s role in their struggles can create distance.
7. Alternative Sources of Purpose.
· Social justice movements, community groups, or even online platforms sometimes fill the role of giving meaning and mission.
· Instead of seeing the church as the primary site of community leadership (as in past generations), they look elsewhere.
But it’s not all in decline.
Many churches have created authentic mentorship programs, job pipelines, safe spaces for men to discuss their concerns, youth-centered worship styles, and relevant discussions on race, justice, and identity. Young Black men do show up — and stay.
Here are a few examples of what’s working.
1. The Brotherhood at The Potter’s House (Dallas, TX – Bishop T.D. Jakes)
· Offers male-focused mentoring, life skills workshops, and brotherhood groups.
· Connects biblical teachings with real-world issues such as employment, leadership, and relationships.
· Uses conferences and media that appeal to younger men through music, culture, and honest conversation.
2. New Birth Missionary Baptist Church (Stonecrest, GA – Pastor Jamal Bryant)
· Runs programs addressing incarceration, job training, and reentry — speaking directly to the struggles of young Black men.
· Youth events often blend hip-hop culture, social justice activism, and spiritual teaching.
· Creates spaces where young men see leaders who look like them and talk about their lived experiences.
3. The Men’s Ministry at Alfred Street Baptist Church (Alexandria, VA)
· Offers mentorship, college scholarships, and networking for young Black men.
· Partners with HBCUs and community organizations to prepare high school and college-aged men for leadership.
· Uses forums where young men can ask raw questions about faith, race, and manhood without judgment.
4. Impact Church (Atlanta, GA – Olu Brown, founder)
· Known for attracting Millennials and Gen Z with innovative worship styles, modern music, and tech-driven services.
· Places emphasis on mental health, entrepreneurship, and service projects — issues young Black men care about.
· Welcomes men into leadership early rather than asking them to “wait until they’re older.”
5. Young Men’s Ministry at Abyssinian Baptist Church (Harlem, NY)
· A historic church that ties faith directly to Black empowerment and activism.
· Runs mentoring programs and workshops on education, career, and personal development.
· Uses the church’s history of social justice to connect young Black men with a larger mission.
6. The Manhood Development Program (Oakland, CA – linked with schools & churches).
· Though school-based, it’s heavily church-supported.
· Helps young Black men learn about history, leadership, and brotherhood in a safe and affirming space.
· Participants have shown reduced dropout rates and stronger academic performance.
7. Hip-Hop Ministries & Urban Church Plants.
· Some churches utilize hip-hop culture, spoken word, and graffiti art as forms of worship.
· These ministries resonate deeply with young men who feel traditional church culture doesn’t reflect them.
· They also tackle real-world issues, including police brutality, fatherhood, financial literacy, and identity.
Common denominators with these and your churches are:
· Mentorship & Brotherhood: Older men intentionally guiding younger ones.
· Relevance: Tackling issues of race, economics, justice, and manhood directly.
· Cultural Connection: Using music, style, and language that reflect young men’s worlds.
· Practical Help: Job pipelines, scholarships, mental health resources, reentry support.
· Leadership Opportunities: Not just asking them to sit in the pews, but to lead projects, ministries, and conversations.
In short, where churches meet young Black men in their reality — not just in tradition — they show up.
As a community, it's worth considering if we are truly supporting our youth as best as we can. I sometimes feel like I could do more. I admit that I fall into stereotypes when I see them, and I don’t always take the time to understand what they’re going through. I can sense their frustration just from their gestures, tones, and looks. Sadly, I realize I’m not in the close-knit village of the past that played a part in raising each other’s children.
When it comes to reaching young Black men (16–24), some church models are thriving, while others are struggling. Here’s what works vs. what fails:
Some Models Succeed, why?
1. Authentic Mentorship
· Churches that intentionally pair young men with older brothers/fathers in the faith create bonds of trust.
· These mentors walk with them through school, work, and personal struggles, not just “church stuff.”
Example: Churches’ scholarships & mentoring programs.
2. Relevance & Real Talk
· They don’t shy away from tough topics: racism, police brutality, masculinity, mental health, sexuality, and money struggles.
· They connect biblical principles to real life, rather than remaining abstract.
Example: Many churches focus on reentry programs for young men leaving incarceration.
3. Cultural Connection
· They embrace hip-hop, spoken word, social media, and fashion, rather than condemning them.
· Worship feels alive, not stuck in another era.
Example: A few churches are using hip-hop culture to attract young men.
4. Opportunities to Lead
· They don’t tell young men, “wait until you’re older.” Instead, they let them plan events, lead discussions, play music, and run projects.
· This gives ownership — not just attendance.
Example: Impact Church’s practice of giving Gen Z/ Z/Millennials leadership early.
5. Practical Support
· Career workshops, job pipelines, scholarships, mental health counseling, and entrepreneurship training.
· These help young men build futures, not just “get saved.”
Example: Brotherhood and Front Liners at churches with job/life skills programs.
6. Community & Brotherhood
· They create spaces for male bonding without judgment.
· Sports, retreats, barbershop talks, safe spaces to be vulnerable.
· This builds trust and keeps them connected.
Why Some Models Fail
1. Overly Judgmental Atmosphere
· Churches that hammer on sin without offering hope or solutions drive young men away.
· Especially harmful when they feel singled out for how they dress, talk, or live.
2. Irrelevance to Daily Life
· When sermons focus solely on tradition, prosperity, or abstract theology, young men tend to disconnect.
· They want answers to their reality, not just rules.
3. Lack of Male Role Models
· If they don’t see men their age or older leading, serving, and thriving in the church, they assume it’s not for them.
· Many Black churches are majority female in participation and leadership roles (outside the pulpit), leaving young men feeling out of place.
4. Church Politics & Hypocrisy
· When leaders compete for power, money, or reputation, young men may begin to view the church as just another flawed system, similar to others they are familiar with.
· They crave authenticity, and hypocrisy is a dealbreaker.
5. Failure to Adapt to Culture
· Refusing to embrace technology, social media, modern music, or new ways of worship creates a disconnect.
· Gen Z lives online — if the church isn’t there, it becomes invisible to them.
6. No On-Ramp for Newcomers
· Some churches expect young men to “show up and fall in line.”
· Without intentional outreach, discipleship, or small groups, they slip out unnoticed.
The Bottom line is:
Many successful churches recognize young Black men as partners, not projects. They walk alongside them, empower them, and truly listen. On the other hand, churches that face challenges might overlook them, talk down to them, or hesitate to make necessary changes.