Sometimes, we tend to find excuses for the things that don't work out for us. We tend to blame others instead of taking responsibility for our actions, which only elevates the excuses. This behavior also applies to standing up for what is right. We often remain silent and wait for someone else to take the initiative instead of holding ourselves accountable. "What's your excuse, now?" is about empowering ourselves to make choices that will help us feel comfortable and confident in our skin.
Monday, June 16, 2014
RIP, Casey Kasem!
I remember listening to Casey and the Top 40 many years ago while I was in the inventory. He kept me awake when I drove home from the naval base in Virginia back to South Carolina. His signature sign-off was, "Keep your feet
on the ground and keep reaching for the stars." You did good, Casey!
Sunday, June 15, 2014
Happy Father's Day!
I commend you honorable men who sacrificed and got things accomplished with the best of your abilities to provide, protect and care for your families! God bless you! God bless the father's that are stressed, weary, exhausted, hurt and frustrated by dealing with the demands of this world to be responsible role models for their children. God bless the new fathers who had no previous models to accept the new role of being responsible for the children they have brought into this world and will just have to follow their instincts and not abandon their loved ones. God bless the "baby daddies" to accept their responsibilities and stop making excuses for not having their own father in their lives. We can not ignore the women behind all of these men who encourage, support and engage in a truthful, honest conversation to let these men that they are not in this world alone. Faith with time and patience are just a few requirements to make men strong. God and prayer at the forefront of any relationship with make us all stronger.
Thursday, June 12, 2014
RIP, Ruby Dee!
Ruby and Ossie - Photo by Chester Higgins, Jr./NYT |
Another phenomenal woman, Ruby Dee transitioned to a higher level. Ruby Dee passed today at 91! She's meeting with her husband, Ossie, about a new stage play which they will be again the leading characters. Ossie Davis, also her stage partner passed away in 2005 at the age of 87. Ruby and Ossie participated in 11 stage productions and five
movies during long parallel careers – the two together they helped pave the
road for two generations of black performers.
They were also both active in civil rights and a classy couple. They were the Ashford and Simpson of the
stage. Our prayers are with them and their family!
Nothing As Powerful As A Changed Mind - Bishop T. D. Jakes!
Time spent well worth listening to! You are never to old to listen and learn. Some of us are still learning the hard way.
Friday, June 6, 2014
June 6, 1944 – D-Day!
In preparation for the invasion, artillery equipment is loaded aboard LCTS at an English port. 1 June 1944. Photo by Nehez. SC206438 |
Today, June 6, 2014, marks the 70th anniversary
of the military term D-Day which a planned military operation began. June 6, 1944, was the day that allied forces
joined together to take the fight to their enemies in Western
Europe . The US , with the British and Canadian forces, some
156,000 of them landed on five beaches spreading along a 50-mile stretch of France ’s Normandy
area. It took a great deal of planning to deceive
the Germans of the invasion but it worked. Nevertheless, there were thousands of
casualties and some 4,000 plus deaths. These
brave people gave their all so that we can have the freedom we have now. Franklin
D. Roosevelt was President at the time but died in 1945. It was the time that WWII was coming to an end.
Despite the freedoms, we have some of us have
taken them to the extreme. We disrespect
our current President publicly with no apologies because of free speech. Even though if we had lost the war would our
free speech be abolished? Would I be
able to write this blog? We have the
right to bear arms but in some areas in America we can flaunt it in the
government’s face and take our guns in public settings not under threat but
intimidating to others. What will happen when good guys stand their ground against other good guys? Will a misunderstanding be resolved peacefully or with gunplay? How many innocent people will be affected? What do we do
when our politicians are more concerned about their personal interests than for
the people? The real winners are the arms dealers. They promote fear and increase gun sales. A vote is a powerful weapon when you have thousands, it can change the political environment. Let's hope people use common sense.
The President is facing more controversy for trading a
soldier for five terrorists. I don’t
have the complete details on how Sgt. Bowe Bergdahl was captured and the reasons behind
it. It seems that he might not get a hero's welcome. He might not receive anything favorable. But he is home! As for the terrorists, have we forgotten the
drones? If anything, those guys will be looking over their shoulders as long as
they live. Our combat soldiers returning home will carry much more than that for the rest of their lives. They lost friends, fellow soldiers and seen things they couldn't help but see. The VA and their families will have to deal with PTSD and other mental disorders that can put those soldiers on the edge. Pray that they don't commit suicide or homicides.
We also need to be concerned about the shootings and stabbings
here in America .
There is a litany of murders taking place across college campuses and homes. First Responders have to be extremely careful
while carrying out their duties. I wonder
if those soldiers who died for this country in past and current wars expected
this kind of reaction from the people and country they died for.
Sunday, June 1, 2014
Kingdom - Common featuring Vince Staples! Adult language!
Common is an intellectually, socially-conscious rapper.
"Kingdom," his latest song, is a profound exploration of religion and
violence in Chicago . Harsh language but very thought provoking. This is the first time I ever used sound cloud. Our young people are longing for guidance and love!
Wednesday, May 28, 2014
A Time to Remember by Joyce Meyer!
Joyce Meyer |
"Having eyes, see ye not? and having ears, hear ye not? and do ye not remember?" Mark 8:18
I have often said I think we forget what we should remember
and remember what we should forget. Jesus chastised the disciples on one of
their journeys because they had forgotten about a miracle He had done. They had
started out on a trip and suddenly remembered that they had forgotten to bring
enough bread. He then began to chastise them, asking if they had forgotten when
He fed five thousand people with five loaves of bread. Had they forgotten
another amazing miracle when He fed four thousand with seven loaves? Had they
remembered, they would not be worried about going hungry because of not having
brought enough bread with them.
If we would remember the miracles God has done in our past,
we would not so easily fall into worry and fear when we face new challenges.
When David was facing Goliath and nobody was encouraging him, he remembered the
lion and the bear that he had already slain with God’s help. Because of
remembering the past, he had no fear of the current situation.
Are you facing something right now that looms before you
like a giant in your life? Is it illness or financial lack? Is it relationship
problems? Is it something you have never done before and you don’t know where
to begin?
The truth is that it doesn’t matter what it is because
nothing is impossible for God. Take some time right now and recall some of the
things He has helped you with and brought you through in the past. Think about
and talk about those things, and you will find courage filling your heart.
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