I’m diverting a little to this particular song, not because it’s sexy, but because it’s all about taking care of the lover in your life. This young woman hasn’t received the credit she deserves. Jill is very talented, not only can sing, she can truly act. Society has misplaced values on full-figured women. There is nothing wrong with a woman who has some extra meat on her in all the right places. She can’t help it if she’s big-boned. She carries herself well, respect herself, and expect others to respect her, too. Jill seemed to have lost weight to be accepted, the same that Jennifer Hudson had to do. It’s a shame that we still value people by the way they appeal to us. We forget what they have to do to maintain good health and prolong their time with us.
Sometimes, we tend to find excuses for the things that don't work out for us. We tend to blame others instead of taking responsibility for our actions, which only elevates the excuses. This behavior also applies to standing up for what is right. We often remain silent and wait for someone else to take the initiative instead of holding ourselves accountable. "What's your excuse, now?" is about empowering ourselves to make choices that will help us feel comfortable and confident in our skin.
Friday, January 6, 2012
I Feel Like Going On!
Let’s give credit to the Mississippi Mass Choir for their version, I Feel Like Going On. Where the author got Home from, I don’t know. I don't know why I went back and listened to these old songs. God knows just what I need and when I need it. No matter how far we've drifted from the Lord, He's always there. He loves us more than we will ever know, even more than a mother’s love. Thank you, Lord, Your mercy endures forever!
Thursday, January 5, 2012
Domestic Violence!
This video says it all about the possible consequences of conflict. Unfortunately, this is reality. There are just too many people we love (d) that are in situations that could not see their way out it. “Lord, if you won’t move this mountain, give me the strength to climb over it!” We don’t just hurt the ones we love, we overdo it. What’s worse, we don’t realize it! People we have got to find a better way to respect and communicate with each other. We all have stress but we can find some way to turn it into something positive. Let’s not rely on how much time it’s going to take, we can screw things up bad enough. We must start now! We all had mothers and fathers, if they were abused, we must break the chain now and not use that experience as an excuse. We wouldn’t want any member of our family hurt by anyone, especially, by the very person that says they love them. Nothing worth having is ever easy, but trying to keep it can be everything. A link has been provided at the title of this entry.
Wednesday, January 4, 2012
Conflict!!!
Regardless of the definition, it is opposing what your mate feels that is detrimental to his or her physical or mental stability. Either way you look at it, the two opposing forces are not thinking in the same direction. I’m speaking of relationships in general. At times, it might seem that we are involved in a war. Words are said that can hurt the person you love because you need to make a point. I don’t always think from the heart but from the mind. This can cause an even bigger problem because I’m always too busy analyzing instead of listening. It’s remarkable the way so many marriages and relationships collapse and/or destroyed by the very people who were once in love with each other. It’s pitiful that they lose that love forever. I have attached a website called the Two of Us. I hope that it will help someone who wants to make their relationship work. We have to stand up for the ones we love, deep inside they still love us, too!
Tuesday, January 3, 2012
I Want To Say Thank You - Lisa Page Brooks!
We have come too far for go God to leave us now! We couldn’t have made it without Him!
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