What's Your Excuse, Now?

Sometimes, we tend to find excuses for the things that don't work out for us. We tend to blame others instead of taking responsibility for our actions, which only elevates the excuses. This behavior also applies to standing up for what is right. We often remain silent and wait for someone else to take the initiative instead of holding ourselves accountable. "What's your excuse, now?" is about empowering ourselves to make choices that will help us feel comfortable and confident in our skin.

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Monday, July 1, 2013

Twisted - A Part Of Things


So many twists and turns we take in this journey called life.
We are bound together in this short time through
experiences, loves, and betrayals brought on by deceptions.

The words we say don’t always match
the actions that we mean.

These living cells that made us are temporary
and our abused pasts
don’t always release the anger and bitterness.

The opportunity crossing paths are God-given
and should be cherished.

When we part,
let’s accept that at one time in our lives,
we were bound together for that specific moment.

We only withstood the trials, tests, and storms
because our ties were three-cord strong.

But always in the end,
it is life that will separate us.

Even then don’t let go of the pleasant memories.




A Part of Things ©

The Learning Circle


Brother G. Peralta shared some wisdom and charts with me and I want to pass it on!  For each defining-moment event that happens in our lives, whether good or bad, we need to look it as our learning circles.  Over time, these moments should resemble an open slinky.  There are many coils in the slinky but they are all attached and still able to attain unique shapes.  Certainly, our character defines the type of person we are.

Observe the moment, reflect on it, discuss it with confidants, ask God what was His will and what should you do to bring out His glory.  Plan what you need to do to resolve, rectify, or recuperate, hold yourself accountable, seek affirmation from your confidants, and act.  Do not observe and act, over reaction could cause bigger issues.  Split the circle in half, repent if necessary after observing, reflecting, and discussing.  On the opposite side, believe from your question, plans, accountability acceptance, and act accordingly.

Thanks, Brother G!  The learning circle works for all defining moments if used correctly.  I know that I will use it.  Understand that Brother G, is using Jesus Christ as his spiritual guide.  Many of us are doing the same.

Tuesday, June 25, 2013

I Wouldn’t Know You – James Fortune/FIYA ft. Nakitta Clegg-Foxx

Save Yourself For Me – Hiroshima

Friday, June 21, 2013

The Lord Is My Shepherd!

Blessings to Rev. Ben for getting me to question my relationship with God. Most of us like to think we are developing some type of relationship with God by trying to get to know Him. In order to do that, we must read and study the Word of God. There are passages that we see so many times that we don’t go any deeper than we have to.

Take Psalms 23 for example. The LORD is my shepherd; I shall not want. He makes me to lie down in green pastures; He leads me beside the still waters. He restores my soul; He leads me in the paths of righteousness For His name’s sake.

Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil; For You are with me; Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me. You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies; You anoint my head with oil; My cup runs over. Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life; And I will dwell in the house of the LORD Forever.

We hear this Psalm all of the time. It’s short, it’s peaceful, and it is simple. So simple, that we take it for granted. Was that what David intended when he wrote it? I don’t know where he wrote and he went through enough struggles that he did think it was necessary to write. But one has to admit that the psalm is short and sweet.  Think about God's goodness and mercy.  Where would we be without them?  Where would we be without His love?

Don’t forget that David was a shepherd in his youth and he did defend his flock against its enemies. See where I’m going? He killed a lion, a bear, and Goliath! All were in the “in the shadow of death” where he walked and feared “no evil.” Why, because in the presence of his enemies, God anointed his head with oil. So much that his cup ran over. David remembered that the Chief Shepherd is with at all times and will supply all of David’s needs. Being near peaceful waters and resting in soft green pastures are what we all look for. David was a man after God’s heart and he wanted goodness and mercy to be with him all of his life. He expected it! David knew God like you know your best friend. You know what they like and don’t like. You know them sometimes better than yourself. But do we start off to know God that well? Do we try?

When our storms come as did David’s, do we forget about the Shepherd and look to our own way of surviving. And when we don’t get a hand getting out of that storm, we start reaching somewhere else. If we really had faith enough to trust God, we would know that God will bring us out of the storm! It’s just so hard to let go of old habits.  God wants us to trust Him.  He is the same yesterday, today, and tomorrow.  He is consistent.

Wednesday, June 12, 2013

Happy Father's Day!



  This is what being a real father is about!  Just in time for Father’s Day!  We need to see more positive things about people on the tube than our sons and daughters being locked up.  In an interview with NBC’s “Today Show,” Rasan Portlock, 29, shared his adoration, excitement, and pride as he discussed being a father to his son, Ryheim.

Wednesday, June 5, 2013

Congratulations, Teria!

Graduation Day, 2013!
Giant kudos to my niece, who recently graduated from high school with honors.  She's on her way to the University and success!  God bless her!  The Colonel did a great job raising those children to young men and women!  May bright lights and God's blessings be with them forever!